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GOLD is so awesome(:
Sunday, October 31, 2010

Hi babes. HOHO,
Jacinda, IF you happen to see this on your trip to chongqing, count yourself lucky, but please act as if you dk cos we are only suppose to let you know when you come back! SO HERE IT GOES....
Yesterday was prize presentation for our PW competition, heyyo, it's national wan okay LOL. PW sounds so lousy.
Yeaps after a super long wait of... 1 month 15 days... FINALLY, the day came.
30-10-2010.
We went to the zhong hua zhong shang hui at city hall. Thinkhine was really crazy cos she had an awesome sense of direction and we didn't get lost cos of her uber good map reading skills! HAHAH
and yah, after like so long de performance by woodgrove secondary, we(Xiaoqing, Thinkhine and I), started grumbling, cos we just wna know the results!!!
Before that, was show casing of ALL the projects, and hahah!! Thinkhine's MALE SEXY voice was played and she was laughing her way off.
And yeaps, they gave the primary sku category first...
And it was a super long wait for us... and... FINALLY.
It's 广播新闻!
Then the emcees announced the bronze award winner
The first one was chung cheng high school, and we were like... OMG IZIT US?!
And no, it's not DISAPPOINTED for the FIRST TIME.
And got another bronze... we thought it would be us... BUT STILL... NOT US. ):
Then go on to the silver one...
the emcee announce...
中正中学总校,标题是:青奥会。。。
Our title was this:青奥会新加坡的骄傲
so we thought it was ours, but then...
IT TURNED OUT TO BE XUE XIAO'S GROUP.
WE WERE DISAPPOINTED TO THE MAX.
The next, the male emcee said it was time to present the gold, but the female emcee said silver. But the male emcee's voice was louder, so we took it as it was gold...
WE PRAYED SO FREAKIN HARD KAYS...
AND NOPE, IT WAS NOT US.
SO DIE, THERE WILL ONLY BE ONE GOLD AWARD.... AND IT'S NOT OURS... MEANS WE DIDN'T WIN ANYTHING. !!! D:
DISAPPOINTED BEYOND THE VERY MAX, VERY VERY VERY MAX.
But then... SUDDENLY...
The emcee announced...
获得我们中学组广播新闻金奖的是。。。中正中学总校,标题是:青奥会新加坡的骄傲!
SERIOUSLY, IT WAS LIKE... OMG?!?! IZIT US IZIT US?!?!
So my team went up like... with disbelieve, elation, happiness, joy, ecstatic... REALLY! Cos we were soooo DISAPPOINTED, but in the end... WE GOT GOLD!
So actually the male emcee said wrongly LOL.
SCARE US LAH!
But still, we are so proud of ourselves right!! Seriously!! Gold ley, champion ley!!
Sad that the trophy is give school ):
And it's a pity that Jacinda wasn't with us to share the joy!!! ):
Honglaoshi went up the stage like 5times??
Cos both wumeixian's group got award, and she didn't come, so honglaoshi replaced her... Then got her own group also got... then still got one more is prize for wumeixian...
What jinpailaoshi... And the first time is lame de lah, get certs for everyone.
HAHAH SERIOUSLY! DAMN HAPPY CAN!!!
Oh yes, we pwnzx the PRCs lah like srsly!! I think CCHMS group only our group no PRC, no china pple and we won gold! HAHAH!! OKAYS, PHOTOS NOW!!









It's dedications again!
Friday, October 29, 2010

HAHAHA, yes, dedications. Everybody is doing it, so yes, I am going to do so.
I am doing for those that are invited to my blog so yah. HAHAH




In no special order:

1. IrisKoh.

HAHAH Thanks for being sucha awesome friend to me, and yes, I understand what you wrote in my book, but everyone wants people's acceptance, so yeah, I will still go around asking things so that I can improve! Had an awesome time with you throughout this 2 yrs, like coming to sku or going home! HAHAH!! You done so well for EOYE, I know you can do well in your KILLER combi still!! Jiayous for everything! And hopefully see you in VJC(if you want to come), or maybe RJC or even HCJC!! Don't be so sad about your idol having gfs, I know you deserve good bf tooo!! HAHAH stop your emo stuffs on your blog, though it is very well written, but please, some nice stuffs eh? Or rather HAPPY stuffs! All the best!!


2. LeckWanQing.

Well, we don't quarrel very often, it is called,
A NOT SO RATIONAL AND INTELLIGENT DEBATE. Hahaha, thanks for being so tolerating towards me, like my rude rude smses. HAHA, you know lah, I very kan jiong de! But yeah! Nice knowing you! And hopefully we can find some time to go out and can see you without your braces, and chio teeth!! (: Stay pretty babe!
And hahaha, excited about surabaya right!! Quite happy to be in the same group as you!! WOOHOOO!! Let's camwhore like siao and leave behind sweet memories instead of not so intellectual debates! HAHAH! Triangles times 100 for you!

I think we havent wear tgtr ley!

3. ChanelGo.

Hi babe!! Yes we dislike ____, but yeah, the bible say we still have to love them kkkk(: So yeah! You are so nice and friendly, so helpful too!! So rich yet not snobbish, like this great personality ttm!!! HAHA, you are an awesome friend that I will never regret having!! I love you bedroom!! We shall go your house and mahjong again and make you lose all your $ to me!! HEHEHE. Without you, the class will be so quiet(NOT HINTING THAT YOU ARE NOISY :P) but yea, miss your presence and love you!
Last long with Jwong, and must love Iris too kkk!! Work hard, and talente girl stop saying your piano skills sucks. I will kill you. Let's NOT go shopping tgtr, you will burn my pocket ): HAHAH kidding!! And come on!! What's wrong with your retainer!! Aiyoh weird lah!! People take out braces is go show off liao mah!!


4. PriscillaAnnLim

Hi Ahpui(idk how to spell). Thanks for being so lame, cos I can be lame too and you have no rights to say I'm lame :P
And thanks for:
-Stepping on my shoe
-Pulling my shoelace
-Tap on my shoulder thinking that I wouldn't know.
-Laughing like no tomorrow
-AND SAYING:"NI HEN LA MEH?"
Answer is: OF COURSE LAH STILL NEED ASK!
HAHAH fine, serious things, thankyou for being so tolerating too, good temper. HAHAH try to influence your dar kkk, make him got good good temper like you!!
And using a better approach to talk to me, and tell me what I've done wrong!! really appreciated that!
Sec 3, sec 4 must jiayous then can get into good JC like(and with) Jkai!! Last long with him!! All the best, stop slacking or hang online all day long!!!

Eh i can't find photos we take tgt ):

5. Limli

HAHAH not say super close or what, but at least close during CDC. HAHAH Sorry for the sengchuan thing, but I would want you to know that, he isn't really some pervert or what kk, at the very least don't go around saying bad things about him when next yr sec1s come in kays? Promise me alrights? HAHA Overall, good to know you. And yes, I CERTAINLY LOVE SICK PEOPLE. But still, sad that your mind is so polluted now, I thought you use to be innocent?(I know you will deny or say YT pollute you hahah! RIGHT RIGHT RIGHT?) Okays, good luck for everything you are going to do! Bring CDC to a greater heights when you become excos kkkk!!


6. JacindaHoon

Hello, I don't think you will be reading this cos you are flying sooooon, and when you come back, this post will be so behind! But nvm, hahaha, sorry for everything I've done previously, but still, hahah you are quite a nice friend, and we work pretty well for Ellit, PW and UBD! WOW! We actually had so many projects tgtr! It's a pity we ain't close even after so many projects ): And yah, you so pretty can!!(STOP DENYING) SERIOUSLY MUAHAHA. Sorry for everything and I suppose everything is over. If I happen to like mention it, it is really a slip of tongue, please tell me, I will apologise! Oh yes, I actually quite envious of you sia!! know so many people de secret!! Next time share with me some kkk, since I'm also leaving liao, spread also Darren and Jolene know what I talking about!! HAHAH. Hopefully you will come for clique chalet and persuade melons to come too! They seems pretty against it HAHAH!! Sorry and thankyou!


7. AliciaLim.

Hihi our responsible chairman. I feel that I have so much to tell you, but your dedications to me so short ):
Nvm, hahah, firstly, I would like to say I'm really sorry to you, like saying you aren't really nice or wat in the past due to what I've heard. I take back what I said kkk!! (: I really dare not be close to you, but I think I've been proven wrong! You're quite an awesome friend to have and a super nice chairman, smsing us, doing your job so well, and treat your friends so well! HAHAH, and I think you suddenly look better than... erm a few months back? HAHAH really, as in yeah, prettier. Dk why. Izit your hair or what?!?! LOL. I'm really quite proud of having you as a friend, and knowing you!! Goodluck, and you'll definitely do well for your "O"s, you so hardworking!! HAHAH Jiayous!!
Oh fyi, you look sweet when you smile (: So smile more, no matter what!!


8. GohXiaoQing.

Hm, hihi!! Pw group member! It's quite coool to know that you are my cousin!! HAHAH, though not very close to you, but we talked a few times!! HAHA You and pris so lame sia! Sit in front of me(us), aiyoh!! Continue to strive hard, I know your results are improving!! And work hard for MSP kkk, don't score what you brother scored!! I know you can do well de!! HAHAH, have fun going gaga over kpop or other hot hot guysss!! All the best!


9. ChiaYunTing.

Hi another sicko!! We really aren't close, but at least quite close in maple, I suppose LOL!
Continue being sick, cos it's good LOL. Just a random fact: Masturbation is good, ESP for guys, it improves their sperm quality. So ask your future bf to do that. LOL, so wrong!! I can see that you are a very nice friend, towards PrisC, Zoeying, Limli etc!! That time you apologised on teh behalf on PrisC, I'm really quite touched!! It's sad that I'm not so close to you, not as blessed as PrisC etc. But well, hahah you go maple do what sia!! Really go chat only arh!! Anyways, let's jiayous tgtr in IP kkk and be top scorer for "A"s, sounds super far but oh well. Good luck!!

I SUPPOSE THAT IS ALL.




And yes,
MESSAGE TO ALL:
I LOVE YOU PEEPS, CLOSE ANOT, I STILL LOVE YOU.


Must miss me, because I'll miss you too!! Good luck and all the best!! Thanks for giving me so many wonderful memories and teaching me so many lessons that could not be taught thru books!!



Continue to work hard kkk!! I will jiayous, and survive IP! Let's JIAYOUS tgtr!!






I think i am so nice, my dedications are so longggg

LOL.

Hm, Sorry Limli, I am not going to blog about boobs, or a detailed post about boobs.
Only a short short post.
Just wna let you all know that, that day I took a mrt from church to tampines with Fanny, got this woman, with freakin big boobs, like srsly. SUPER BIG. sadly, she was pretty fat, so she look as if she got stuffed from top to bottom. Can you imagine if she is super skinny, with that freakin boob size?

Yes this big, obviously not so skinny.
This is a F cup.
SO BIG RIGHT. AREYOUJEALOUS?!
HAHAHAITHINKIAMBUTIDOWANSOBIGDE, LIKEYAHFCUP. TOOBIGALRDYLOL.
And wat, got a person got G gup, and she wants it to become smaller. OMG lah.
Still got ppl got H, J cup. SO OMG. Their weight wont unbalance meh? HAHAHA LOL.

Fyi, when i google search these boobs, they gave me some naked picture. WOOHOOO OBSCENE LOL.
And ofc, saggy boobs. LOL.
Okays end of post.

BON VOYAGE TO JACINDA AND SEAN
HAVE FUN IN CHONGQING (:

Officially Last Day Of School.
Thursday, October 28, 2010

It' the end of the school alrdy, and yes, really, it's officially for me, cos I'm leaving for IP. And somehow officially to many people of sec2s, cos people are going to different classes. Sad or not?
Hm yeah, after 2yrs being tgtr with 2LY, ofcourse, sad things do happen, but there are happy memories too. Not many, but enough to be precious thru my life.
I could say that my 2years in ChungCheng was rather fulfilling, and yes, I did grow up alot, both physically and mentally.
I see how humans really are.
I see who are real friends.
I know how to become stronger
I know how to admit defeat.
I understand the fact that the reality of this world, is cruel.
I understand that people around us, are not perfect.
I learn that being with other people with different backgrounds aren't as easy i thought it was.
I learn to know myself even better.

And yes, ofc I got so many thankyous to tell so many people.
And firstly, ofc my clique people--Wanqing, Chanel, Iris and Priscilla.
And my seniors--Mabel, shirlyn, Anna, Yanzhan, Xinhao, Kairong, Jiaqi & so many moreeeeee~

Yes, I thank those who supported me since the start of the year, throughout everything, throughout all conflict. These people may not just be my clique people, there are some other pple out there supporting me.

and those who are neutral, though i doubt that anyone on this Earth will be so neutral and objective. But I shall put those who kept their comment to themselves, be it good or bad.
Thanks alot, for respecting me and ofc others who are involved in it. I respect you guys the most (:

And lastly, those who are against me. Yes, I have to thank them. Without them, I wouldn't be who I am today. I know I still have so much to learn, so much to improve. But these people have changed a little part of me, and made me a better person.
Like a quote that says:"Those who don't kill you, will make you stronger."
And yes, I am still alive and kicking, and going to move on with my life, pursuing my dreams in VJC, and ofc, know my weaknesses as well as strengths. I am going to get stronger because the past is part of me, but it does not define who I am. I will use this past and mould myself to become a better person. The past of getting so badly treated, or insults at me, is only a chance for me to develop.
And I don't hate these people even after what they have done, like I say, without them, I would be different.
So I gotta thank these people, not naming who they are but yeah. Still thankyou, if you classify yourself(or yourselves) under this category.

Anyways
Special thanks to:
Mabel
AliciaLim
Jolene
Sean
For those notes, and Mabel for co-ordinating with so many people to write in the personalized notebook.

I know that some people is so happy that I'm leaving, and ofc I feel kinda happy too. Afterall, there was so much bad memories in CCHMS, going to VJC may just be a fresh start for me.
But still, I feel kinda sad leaving some of my friends. HAHAH But I suppose life will just go on even parting is so painful.

And yes, after all this(shit), I learn that no matter how hard you try, there would be someone, or some people that you will never be able to please. People ain't God, we aren't perfect. So why not just accept the fact? Try your best, if you still fail, it just mean that you gotta try harder, or that person just don't appreciate it.
What else can you really do? Nothing much. Accept people's insults/remarks/comments, but don't take it to heart.
But no matter what, let go of the past. It doesn't define you. I just make you stronger.
I finally understand it.
Well, overall I can't wait to start school in VJC

And 2years in 2loyalty...
We aren't so bonded though, compared to other classes.
Or aren't as bonded compared to last year
We become so clique-ky
and bore hatred between classmates
We gossip, and in the end, leaving both parties hurt.
But still, when we are classmates, it is a special affinity.
We do quarrel over little minute things, but we do have laughter.
Cheering tgtr when we succeed, remember?
April fool pranks and many many more.
All the sweet times together.
I'm proud to be a part of 2LOYALTY'10, ARE YOU?

Are you disappointed?
Wednesday, October 27, 2010

HEHEHOHO, I said I would blog about boobs, but yeah, I no mood to blog about it, and dk where to start from. So yeah, shall blog about my BORING life.

Monday, when most of you are playing comp/watching videos/outing with friends, Qing and I went back to sku for surabaya trip training. But yeah, good thing is, we had group planning, and our group changed. I am with Chongyong, Qing, Yingjie and Hsintung, good or not compared to previous group? Hard to say HAHHA. We are taking P6 WOOHOOO!!
And you know you know, it's COLD weather up thr mount bromo!! So excited! can't wait for it you know you know!! And the waterfall... CHIO TTM, sad that we cant bring cams in cos it is dangerous and we are gna get wet from head to toe. YAY.
So excited about sku CIP HEHEHE!!
We thought we do not need to stay back to parent's briefing, but we need rawrrr!! ):
But after the briefing, I AM SO MUCH MORE EXCITED. Qing and I were waiting for her dad to fetch us, then we started talking about what we shld bring!! HAHAH WOOOOO~

Okays, tuesday, which is yesterday.
School, nothing special. My printing thing was epic FAIL. YAY LOL
After sku, Yjin, Darren, lingjun and I, had a freakin hard time deciding on whr to eat. We settled for KLP cos we wanted to sing kbox.
But in the end, we got scammed. we saw 13$, but, it was 13 PLUS PLUS, and total is 21.70$ Oh wth.
So we went to talk talk @ koufu. We talked about clique chalet, then to class bbq, everything was so hectic, we made phone calls to ask whether they are free and even made phone calls to costa sands to ask for availability. But I see now, efforts have gone down the drain.

Nvm, we are still gna have clique chalet, even though no more class bbq. But well, our class is so clique-ky to have a CLASS chalet.

hi 2LY, are you sad that we are gng to part? ahhh no, you are just sad that your clique ppl are gng to part. FML.

Through it all
Sunday, October 24, 2010

Yes, through it all, I know He will always be there for me, even if the whole world hates me or I'm getting arrows from north south east west, practically every where.
So yeah, continue (:
Continue
continue
continue
reading if you want to
if you want to
if you want to
if you want to
hahaha
hahaha
hahaha
continue
continue
continue
hating if you want to
if you want to
if you want to
if you want to.

HAHAHA, okay, I am just bored.
Tmrw still have to go back to sku for surabaya trip training, not cool eh.
And I think i twisted my ankle today. Heyeah.
Okay, my next post, should be about big boobs. Yes, BOOBS!
Are you excited? Esp LIMLI, boobies. HAHAH
Okay omg so wrong. but yeah.
Wheeee we all love big boobs, don't we?

No, I don't want to lend you.
Saturday, October 23, 2010

HAHAHA, as we all know, we are humans, and we are very afraid of how people think of us, and their impression on us. Thus, we will try to please one's request even though we are so unwilling.
And one very likely case is that, when people ask you for something, even though you do not wish to lend, you will still do so, cos of many reasons, like afraid that people might say that you are selfish etc.
On the other hand, lending your things to other people when you are not willing, people obviously do not know about it. When they knew about it, is when he or she heard someone talking behind their back. Like this person lend alrdy, felt very upset/unfair, and start to have misunderstandings about that person who came to ask for that item(obviously, not knowing that the person who lent was unwilling).
So it becomes like a both side so wei qu, when it become an unhappiness between two sides.
So yeah, here are some excuses to push things away. From bigger things to smaller things.

Firstly,

MONEY
. Yes MONEY$$$

I bet your eyes lit up when you see the word MONEY.
Money is so important in our life, with money, we can buy things that we like, help the weaker, and ofc, look so awesome in front of people. So yeah, when it comes to money, things get complicated. For teenagers like us, when people come and lend money from us... We will be like... Should I? But she's my friend... HAHAH okay here it goes.
reasons you can use.

1. My dad docked my allowance this month, I'm broke too, sorry.
2. My mum keeps tracks of my allowance, spendings and savings. Sorry.
3. Sorry, I just used it to buy my new(Phone, clothes, devices) etc.
4. I just paid for my school trip/section fund/class fund.
5. My mum just warned me not to lend people money, sorry about that.

HAHAHAH. Ofc, I guess many of us still have other crazier, more ridiculous ideas!

Next up,


expensive devices like iPad, iTouch, Handphone etc.
Like obviously, your own thing, you want to play, why lend other people and you can't play.
Reasons you can use.

1. Immediately switch off and say, I'm sorry but the battery is flat.
2. Oh no, there's something wrong with the buttons/sensor, I need to go fix it.
3. Huh, cannot got something private inside.
4. (If your friend dk it's yours) Uhh no, it's not mine, i lend from some other friend de, don't think can lend you.

Third, NOTES.


Yes study notes hahah!!
You know students nowadays are so mug because of this materialistic world, and thus, results are so important, and we go to the extend of buying notes from internet/people. So yeah, we don't wish to share our notes.
Like seriously, why must I share my marks with you?
So here!

1. Copyright infringement if you bought it online, that will totally shut your friends up.
2. Oh sorry, I cant use the comp now, cannot send.
3. If bought online, said your mum/dad don't allow you to lend cos you bought it with $$(and you know, money is so great, that is provided, you are not rich.)
If you friend want to lend and photocopy from you the next day.
4. Say you forget to bring
5. Say you lost it too, and you are freakin sad about that. (obviously, it is at home.)

Sidenote: The smartest thing is, don't take your notes out and flaunt from the start or lend it to ONE person. Cos the whole world will know. If you dont lend to anyone, even people know you have, you have reasons to not lend, and no one will say you are bias or selfish (:

And the last one, PEN, PENCILS, STATIONARIES.



It's not that we don't want to lend, but some people, borrow alrdy, never return, or spoil the pen. So in order to protect it, you have to choice, but to lie about it.

1. I only have one pen.
2. No ink alrdy.
3. I lending it to someone else.
4. My passed away grandfather give de, me myself don't use(obviously fake. who ever fall for it, is really.... LOL)
5. Fake pen.

A sum up.
The best way to push away for teenager is usually.... YOU JUST PUSH IT TO YOUR PARENTS.
Cos they are like so great, and your friends wouldn't go to the extend of asking your parents to verify. And you can always dare them:"Oh I'm really sorry, why not you ask my mum whether can anot? Cos she told me to not lend to anyone."

And actually my whole point is that if you don't feel like lending to a particular person, you shouldn't have lend it to anyone from the start. We are really humans, ofc we hope that people will try their best to fulfil our request, so when you decided to lend a person, you should be prepared more people will come and lend from you.
And if you really don't wish to, you should just reject. (In a nicer way ofc, if you really can't say it, when the person asked thru sms, just don't reply. That person gets the drift.)
Because when the person found out you actually don't wish to, and knew that you are so unhappy about it, and it turned to become like a hatred and starts ganging up with friends to gossip and speak bad about the person, he or she, will feel so hurt, cos he or she really thought you wouldn't mind.
And it really doesn't make sense when you decided to lend, why are you so unhappy, and couldn't let go off it. As in, it is YOUR choice to lend YOUR thing(s) to that person, if you dowan, that person can don't like/unhappy, but he or she wouldn't take a gun and point it at ur brain(Becos we are young and innocent teenagers). And when you decided to lend, and yet can't let go off it, you will start to be prejudice/bias against that person and talk back about the person
which is something very common like:"She's a bitch, thick skin, come lend things from me, when she knew i dun like it."
But how would he or she know about it when you gracefully agreed to lending?

I know it is hard to like reject people sometimes, when it might make things even worse, like that person go spread things like you are selfish etc. But if you don't lend it to ANYONE, who will say it's because you are selfish. And ofc, when you don't lend, you must really give a very convincing reason.
If you are just afraid of ruining your relationship with that friend, that fear not, if he or she is angry over you cos you don't lend him or her thing, that person is certainly not the friend you would like to have. It becomes a "Making use of each other friendship." one day if you no longer have the making use value, that person will just kick you away and forget about you.
So just reject it, before more complications arise.

But personally I think, if that person is a friend you would like to have, or it's within what you can do, why not just help? You may be the one who did that person a favour today, who knows? next time you may need a favour from that person. We will never know. Why not keep our options open and when we need help, people will gladly help us, without hesitant, like how you helped the person before.

It's always hard to speak up, but the person who decided to speak up, has the final victory.

A favour to others today may be insignificant to you, but one day, when you receive a favour from the others, you will know how it feels--touched and overwhelmed with love.

A favour today may be a token for help in the future.

What you have done now, may be the key of breaking the walls between people.

It doesn't hurt to help or lend, but it hurt those who could not get help.

All "helps" are the same, but the difference lies between whether it is willing, or unwilling.

Whether or not to help, it all lies whether we want to.
~~~Rouying

Sorry if this post is boring or wordy, but yeah, I really thank you if you read from the top to the end. (:
And yah, after posting this, if i gave you similar reasons, you know it is obviously cos i dowan to lend you! HAHAHA!!

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